What do you find attractive...

@Keepitsimple yes , that man is sexy...in looks and demeanor

I have the biggest crush on him. Great guy and great actor @TexChik

@Keepitsimple I can see why, I always enjoy it when he's on something I'm watching.

@TexChik how long do you think it takes to see all those qualities...I mean thats a long list LOL

@HatandCloak everytime I look at my husband. 😊

@SW-User only if you have a sharp eye for detail and character nuance with in say 30 sec. 😆

@HatandCloak you exaggerate.

@SW-User no no, I just tend to lean towards the idea that you can't asses a person's character in only one environment. For example at the bar or club he is dashing rogue Robert possesses the powers of intellect passion and nature. But when he goes home he becomes Big Bastardly Belligerent Bob LOL. So for me I would have to see if behavior changes with environment before I can decide on a match.

@HatandCloak [i][c=#BF0080]No, I need a connection to feel any kind of attraction these days. Looks are never enough for me, but there is nothing about his appearance that I’m not attracted to. [/c][/i]

@MellyMel22 but a connection would take time, therefore attraction blossomed by spending time with him allowing you to become familiar with his mental processes. Was he a co-worker, or school buddy perhapse.

@HatandCloak [i][c=#BF0080]He was just a friend whose personality drew me to him first. I was going through something rough, so I don’t think I would’ve seen him in that way right way- the same for anyone else then. It was “him” though, not familiarity that got me. [/c][/i]

@HatandCloak that obvious 🤷‍♀️ 🤣

@Phillyphan78 you don't remember the 3 of us in an all night discussion a few weeks ago 😆

@HatandCloak I do indeed sir