Do you know anyone that was adopted?

1st husband grew up never knowing. His parents passed away and we were at the house sorting through things to keep or toss before selling the home. I see a huge folder of legal documents and I see it's his adoption papers. I was certain he didn't know. He hadn't a clue. Years later I unable to get pregnant adopted a new born baby girl. 3 years later the agency called us back and wanted to know if we might want a second. The boy was just a year and had been abused in foster care.
Now my son and wife are adopting a 10 year old girl that has been in one foster home after another. A lovely child. Very smart. Met her last week.
To discover... my BF living with me now, was adopted. I love how this continues to circle. And the beat goes on.................

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I was put up for adoption when i was 3yrs by my birth mom.. she kept my siblings. I slways remembered them and their names and the pain. I was adopted by the wrong family and never loved but daily abused.
I started search to mrt her when i turned 18..and took 4 months to find her.. i moved in with her and tried to reconnect something that could never be. She amed me for her past and addictions to drug and alcohol saying that if i did not cried that much she would have kept me and never turned to that *shit* although it was a lie as she was a nude dancer went got pregnant with me and was doing all those already.
She used me and hurt me so i left.. last time i saw her my oldest was a month old. I never looked back.