Its my experience that the harder you implicate “control” on someone

The harder they will fight you. The more freedom you take the more they will fight. I have had to listen to a girl talk about her sisters death when i was in a mental hospital. She hung herself to spite her parents. I do not want to have children. But if i did, i would not imply rules such as “do not” anything. You want to do that, son? Here are the dangers and risks of such behavior. That will go with anything. You want to smoke? You want to drink? You want to get intimate? Here is what can happen, think about it. The answer will never be “no” i do not believe the best way to learn is to restrict. I get wanting to protect, but you will not protect them from life. I think it is better to teach them early on that if they want to do something, then they should educate themselves on it first. I learned the hard way. I would want them to learn the easy way. Should i have kids...