i concur @goodguy007

yes girl. i am proud of your choice (: @AmbivalentFriability

@soulsrespite I'm just trying to be practical.

that’s the best way to be in my opinion. you truly learning to love yourself, you won’t ever need anyone else’s love. at least for me anyway. @AmbivalentFriability

alright, when you come here, I don’t want any knocking, bust down the door like the wild men of the past did. @SW-User

@soulsrespite like a wild man indeed. You want it, you get it.

i am waiting. @SW-User

i agree with you, i rather love myself and not have anyone else’s love. @BeefySenpie

lol, will do. @Wishingwellguy

oh, i was asking which you’d rather not experience, having them both though, you will be truly fulfilled. @SW-User

@soulsrespite I think not loving self is like pressing self destruction botton. Tell me, I didn't scare you with my message. 😅

it is, i agree. no, i just took some time to think about what you said. @SW-User

i see, i hope that changes over time. sounds like you are already on the right track by your choice here. (: @Miram

you can always eat something else. @CrustyDDingus

@soulsrespite Well it wouldn’t be love now then would it?

if you want it to be. @CrustyDDingus

i like that. and our first instinct is to give love when we are young. @SoulKey

@soulsrespite not really, yet on a slightly bright side i think it keeps me from being egotistical...not a great system but as i said i function (maybe not well but function)

i see. well if it works for you now, i guess it’s all well, although i would like to see that change over time. but i don’t like shoving it down people’s throats. @lovingdead

@soulsrespite I understand 100%, I strongly advise against it to others. Yet at the same time people need to come to it in their own way and time...though they can benifit from help

i think it’s something learned and practiced. @energie

you will get there. just do the things that make you happy. most of us have yet to get there anyway. @energie

i think you should have both (: @SW-User

okay, that’s a twisted form of love. @Reflection2

@soulsrespite I don't what others called it love or whatever. That's the bottom line reality i see. Nothing sustainable without any of those above.

i am sorry you have been reduced to see love this way. @Reflection2