Do you think it is mean of me for thinking this?

I went to two stores this afternoon, the last one was a Walmart to get some yogurt, came out and drove off and saw my sister walking towards Walmart...kept going but I wanted to roll the window down and yell “Hot enough for you??” As I drove off. But I didn’t... I gave her rides for a year and a half, anywhere she wanted to go in this city. I gave her things and did other stuff for her. She ended up turning on me for not taking her to a casino to gamble and she gaslighted me badly.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

RadiantRuby

This is a tricky one, Sometimes family or friends become to comfortable and they think you simply owe them favours. But you don't owe anybody anything! I would wait for her to apologize to me because these I'm zero percent tolerant.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@RadiantRuby Oh no she’ll never apologize for anything. Too much ego for that. She always has excuses for her mean-assed things that she does to people. She projects her own crap onto others making it look like she’s so innocent and everyone else isn’t.

RadiantRuby

@cherokeepatti In the past 8 years I cut off so many toxic family members and I'm all the better for it. For example my brother which I'm even sorry to call him that, my mother tried to get me to talk to him and I refused! Enjoy life my friend health is important those type of people seem to cause confusion and sorrow, sister or not. Your strong to not allow her to project her behavior on you. I know people who tolerate someone simply because they are family!

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@RadiantRuby Another sister called me about 15 years ago and says “I’m tired of this fighting. We’re getting older, blah blah blah”. I told her “I’m not fighting with anyone. I choose to stay away and there will be no fighting or conflicts, it’s very peaceful that way and that’s how I like it.” She was trying to draw me back into the drama because she is just as bad but in a different way than the other one. And she was probably going through a dry period without a man in her life and wanted to use me to fill her void...