if the pro life men were women would they become pro choice?

if the men that are pro life were women would they become pro choice? men don't understand the kind of position women are put in when they become pregnant. I think many of them would become pro choice if they were women. they say what about the child's choice,you cant ask them so how would anyone know what their choice is. I would be more concerned with providing safe birth control. hormonal can cause cancer, condoms don't work their only good for std prevention and from what I hear it is tough for a woman without children to get a tubule ligation or cauterization.

ok follow up if people were using abortion as birth control don't you think it would be worse them having kids and not taking care of their kids and then those kids having kids? so you would be punishing them by punishing their child. many of them probably don't have the money to raise a child. if they are so irresponsible to not use birth control isnt that a bad parent because they would not teach their child to use birth control.
and I meant would more men turn pro choice not all.

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DunDunDun · 22-25, F

Clearly not all of them because there are women who are against abortion but a lot of them would because they'd actually have to consider what it's like to get pregnant and to take care of a child, something most of them probably haven't thought about at all.

BryanSunshine · 51-55, M

@DunDunDun yeah cause clearly most men are idiots and jerks who never think about things like what it’s like to raise a child.

DunDunDun · 22-25, F

@BryanSunshine Well...yeah. How often do you sit around and think about how it would feel if you were raped and forced to get pregnant against your will and then forced to take care of a child that you can barely provide for? The only thing you most guys think is, "oof I hope that girl I just fucked doesn't take the condom and make herself get pregnant with it so I'll have to pay child support"

Also no need to turn my words around, I never once said most men are idiots and jerks who never think. I just think most people in general are selfish and only think about their own issues.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@DunDunDun this man raised 5 kids that weren't my own
2 I actually rescued from a place they were being raped by Dads drunkin buddied
3 were my Grandkids ,,when my Daughters found out I was right and the men they laid up with were looser's who had no problem making babies ,they just sucked at supporting them or even providing a safe home for my child
Were I a Dad my kids feared ,they may have went with abortion like the men wanted them too ,,its only $400,00 and hour from here ,they can get in early in the morning ,be back by lunch
And is it any less hard to know the man who knocked you up has another girlfriend
You find out he also has other kids ,and the name he wanted you to name his son ,,,He already has another one
and thats his name too ,,the same exact name
Yea not all of us are POS that only care about ourselves
but I did lose my first wife and 3 kids for 12 yrs
At least I was able to talk her out of aborting ours
now all of them are glad I was there ,,so am I
I was scared ,and young ,but I have always provided for my own and also other mothers who need help
My Daughter has fostered 25 kids
we have also helped talk young girls out of abortions ,,
we offered them a home ,and help they were unable to ask their families for ,,they were to scared to face them
Because often when we say that boy is no good for you ,,
we end up being right ,,but those are still my babies
My girls have struggled ,,but not one of them has ever abandoned their children
unlike the Mom of the 2 special needs kids my youngest is raising ,,she threw her kids away for a man
my kid is raising them ,,because she loves kids ,and her man
Its not only men who suck

BryanSunshine · 51-55, M

All I’m saying is… Please don’t lump all of us men into one bucket

DunDunDun · 22-25, F

@rckt148 Okay good for you but I was speaking in general and I made that very clear.
@BryanSunshine Again I specifically said that I'm not talking about all men.

BryanSunshine · 51-55, M

Sorry, right. Not all. Just most. Most of us have not thought about what it's like to take care of a child. At all.

[i]"Clearly [b]not all[/b] of them because there are women who are against abortion but [b]a lot of them[/b] would because they'd actually have to consider what it's like to get pregnant and to take care of a child, something [b]most of them[/b] probably haven't thought about [b]at all[/b]."[/i]

I amend my previous statement: Please don't lump most of us into the same bucket.

DunDunDun · 22-25, F

@BryanSunshine Well I'm not changing my mind. Like I said, most people only care about things that they can relate to. It's the same with women and men. Most people are just selfish.