Is 19 year old female a girl or a woman?

@ozgirl512 yeah but a mature female is called a woman.

@SW-User ah, but we're back to the original question... Who decides if you're mature?

@ozgirl512 our selves i guess lol

@SW-User and I think this is probably the real question maybe.. How do we view ourselves ... From experience, mostly harshly, we're often our own worst critics .. To me, a sign of maturity is that you ask the question ;)

yeah what matters is what kind of impact do we have on people
people can criticize us so nicely
but we can't criticize our selves that nicely for that we have to be unbiased about ourselves

@SW-User that's a hard one... Being objective about yourself... Too many people are willing to lay out all their flaws and past mistakes .. But forget to add the successes and happiness they may have bought to others