Is there someone here on SW that u fear getting close to ?

Well. I wouldn't say fear. But I would say based on the past behaviors of that certain someone, I would be rather reluctant to do so at this present time. Because ya know, some people here are a bit cray cray. Know what I mean. Comments. 🤭

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swirlie · 31-35, F

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No, not at all! What I have always found curious about people in here however, is how reluctant they are to admit anything. The reason I find it curious is because even in text-form and not seeing the person's face nor knowing where they live ...or knowing anything about the person, they STILL cannot bring themselves in most cases, to stating their inner-most desires and passions. EVEN in text-form, most people do not have the courage to speak their truth. What's up with that?

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

@swirlie Because they fear being vulnerable, even at a distant. 🙂

swirlie · 31-35, F

@Zonuss
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How could a 'username' become vulnerable to anything?[/c]

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@swirlie It the emotional connections that people have that makes them vulnerable. Just look around. It doesn't have to be you. 🙂

swirlie · 31-35, F

@Zonuss
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But why choose to have an emotional connection with anyone here? What does that have to do with anything?

If someone asks me a question about ..my preferences in men for example, I don't feel an emotional connection when providing them with my answer. They ask me a question and I simply answer it. Why would I be afraid to do that...?

Why would I NOT answer their question?, but say instead, "OH that question is way too personal, or, I just can't talk about that right now!!!, or, send me a personal message so we can hide in my mailroom so nobody else can hear my truth... ". And I hear that last one a lot in here!

Imagine that! Hiding in a personal message so that nobody else can hear what the conversation is about? Why the hell are those people even in here at SW?, is always my question to them![/c]

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@swirlie Like I said, you are not them. So you are not in their shoes. Everybody thinks differently.

swirlie · 31-35, F

@Zonuss

"Like I said, you are not them. So you are not in their shoes. Everybody thinks differently".
[c=#008099]Zonuss, you did not previously say the above quote!

What you said was ..[/c] "Just look around. It doesn't have to be you".
[c=#008099]What you said versus what you 'thought' you said, are two entirely different things. How do you get "So you are not in their shoes.. everybody thinks differently", from [/c] "Just look around. It doesn't have to be you"?[c=#008099]
Please explain the intricacies of your English dialect for me..[/c]

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@swirlie I think if you had a more insightful view about the things that go on here on SW, you would understand things a whole lot more than just what you see or assume. 🙂

swirlie · 31-35, F

@Zonuss
"I think if you had a more insightful view about the things that go on here on SW, you would understand things a whole lot more than just what you see or assume."
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Insightful view? Are you suggesting that others, such as yourself, have a more "insightful view about the things that go on here at SW", than myself?[/c]

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@swirlie Um, I think you already know the answer to that question.
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swirlie · 31-35, F

@Zonuss

"Um, I think you already know the answer to that question.."

[c=#008099]Oh but please inform me, oh great Master of Social Wisdom![/c]