Is there someone here on SW that u fear getting close to ?

Well. I wouldn't say fear. But I would say based on the past behaviors of that certain someone, I would be rather reluctant to do so at this present time. Because ya know, some people here are a bit cray cray. Know what I mean. Comments. 🤭

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swirlie

No, not at all! What I have always found curious about people in here however, is how reluctant they are to admit anything. The reason I find it curious is because even in text-form and not seeing the person's face nor knowing where they live ...or knowing anything about the person, they STILL cannot bring themselves in most cases, to stating their inner-most desires and passions. EVEN in text-form, most people do not have the courage to speak their truth. What's up with that?

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@swirlie Because they fear being vulnerable, even at a distant. 🙂

swirlie

@Zonuss

How could a 'username' become vulnerable to anything?

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@swirlie It the emotional connections that people have that makes them vulnerable. Just look around. It doesn't have to be you. 🙂

swirlie

@Zonuss

But why choose to have an emotional connection with anyone here? What does that have to do with anything?

If someone asks me a question about ..my preferences in men for example, I don't feel an emotional connection when providing them with my answer. They ask me a question and I simply answer it. Why would I be afraid to do that...?

Why would I NOT answer their question?, but say instead, "OH that question is way too personal, or, I just can't talk about that right now!!!, or, send me a personal message so we can hide in my mailroom so nobody else can hear my truth... ". And I hear that last one a lot in here!

Imagine that! Hiding in a personal message so that nobody else can hear what the conversation is about? Why the hell are those people even in here at SW?, is always my question to them!

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@swirlie Like I said, you are not them. So you are not in their shoes. Everybody thinks differently.

swirlie

@Zonuss

"Like I said, you are not them. So you are not in their shoes. Everybody thinks differently".
Zonuss, you did not previously say the above quote!

What you said was .. "Just look around. It doesn't have to be you".
What you said versus what you 'thought' you said, are two entirely different things. How do you get "So you are not in their shoes.. everybody thinks differently", from "Just look around. It doesn't have to be you"?
Please explain the intricacies of your English dialect for me..

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@swirlie I think if you had a more insightful view about the things that go on here on SW, you would understand things a whole lot more than just what you see or assume. 🙂

swirlie

@Zonuss
"I think if you had a more insightful view about the things that go on here on SW, you would understand things a whole lot more than just what you see or assume."

Insightful view? Are you suggesting that others, such as yourself, have a more "insightful view about the things that go on here at SW", than myself?

Zonuss · 46-50, M

@swirlie Um, I think you already know the answer to that question.
🙄

swirlie

@Zonuss

"Um, I think you already know the answer to that question.."

Oh but please inform me, oh great Master of Social Wisdom!