Give me your dumbest idea or your stupidest phrase

The whole idea of victim-blaming. This doesn't necessarily have to be about any political issue. Basically, blaming people who are bullied, or who find themselves involved with someone who treats them badly. If it were really that obvious what certain people are about (as some people say it is), nobody would ever get involved with them. So whatever you do, don't tell someone that they should have known from the beginning what was going to happen.