Need advice.

How does one get over a cheating spouse? I’m not even mad I’m just hurt. The lying hurts more than the cheating.

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Datura · F

Sadly, when trust is broken, some people can't ever get over it. The guilty party has to be willing and able to earn that trust again and the wronged person must forgive and be open to trusting again or it isn't worth it.

hlpflwthat · M

@Datura Agree. Takes a lot of willingness and want from what I've observed. Not all couples will have that.

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Datura · F

@hlpflwthat ,and from what I've seen, sometimes the couples do stay together for various reasons but never recover and live those lives of quiet desperation.

Datura · F

@sspec So true.

hlpflwthat · M

@Datura I guess to each his own. Life is short enough as is.