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what's the point of being nasty in your introduction statement on SW?

OK. we know you don't want to flirt or talk dirty etc. but why be mean?
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MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]I don’t think I’m nasty in mine, but some do- honestly I think they’re just mad I’m not willing to do what they want and that’s too bad. I’m not obligated to talk dirty, listen to it by them or share anything I don’t want to. [/c][/i]
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@MellyMel22 agree... but some peoples bad behavior should not change who you want to be..
MellyMel22 · F
@memyselfandyou [i][c=#BF0080]Their behavior doesn’t change who I want to be, their behavior is just disrespectful. I don’t care who it is, I don’t want to do the things I say I don’t want to do. I prefer to be upfront and avoid certain people. If they get offended, guess what- it served it’s purpose and only proves that’s what they’re looking for. [/c][/i]
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@MellyMel22 ok... whatever...
MellyMel22 · F
@memyselfandyou [i][c=#BF0080]Exactly.. You shouldn’t get offended and judge women b/c they are letting you know they aren’t going to let you objectify them. [/c][/i]
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@MellyMel22 one word: "wow"
MellyMel22 · F
@memyselfandyou [i][c=#BF0080]That's what every woman who respects themselves is thinking reading your post. [/c][/i]
@MellyMel22 I agree, there shouldn’t be a reason for anyone to be getting offended by it unless they planned on acting in the way the intros are described. The messages are not directly targeted towards everyone, just towards the people who are looking to act in an inappropriate way. So if you feel as if someone is attacking you personally due to these intros or as if the intros are targeting you, then that just shows that you were looking to be inappropriate in the first place. My intro isn’t “nasty”, but I can understand why some are when you’re consistently objectify and having to deal with “friendly” conversations leading to sexual nonsense with nearly any guy you come across on here. 🤷🏽‍♀️ A lot of those people with “nasty” intros are actually really friendly if taken the time to get to know them through the feed instead of directly sneaking to their inbox, then labeling “unclassy” because they don’t want to put up with garbage.
MellyMel22 · F
@Stark [i][c=#BF0080]Yes.. 💜[/c][/i]
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@MellyMel22

[quote]’m not obligated to talk dirty, listen to it by them or share anything I don’t want to.[/quote.]

too bad they are missing out on so much of you that’s a good friend!!! 🤗