Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Why was i stupid enough to argue with and lose my only friend?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
BalmyNites · F
She may come back, perhaps just give it time?
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites I tried today. She replied finally and said...why the fuck would i talk to you?...its been 4 days since she said anything to me
BalmyNites · F
@SolGryn Well, if you think it's something you said to hurt her in anger, maybe just say sorry, tell her you didn't mean it & you miss her.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites I did...she said she meant every word she said...its truly over
BalmyNites · F
@SolGryn I'm so sorry if that's the case, but you will make more friendships, I promise x
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites I'm no good at making friends. I've only had one friend for the past 10 years. I was all in on my friend. I'm sorry to bother you. Thank you for trying
BalmyNites · F
@SolGryn Don't be so hard on yourself, give people a chance & I'm sure you will find another friend
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@BalmyNites okay. I will try
BalmyNites · F
@SolGryn Don't try too much, just take a step back, be cool & chat with people. I'm sure you will feel much different if you give yourself a chance x
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@SolGryn I hope you know you can always hit me up ,
I know about you night terrors so sleep is not your friend ,,pain keeps me up
so I am around a lot day and night ,
you are always welcome to message me ,,,I am not a friend easily offended
I have a young friend that is 13 ,,he has been through some stuff ,,I see him like one of my grandkids ,,I think the world of him ,,but he has pushed my buttons a few times until he learned I won't let him take his anger out on me and I give respect ,so I expect it back
But we all have bad days ,,when you don't sleep ,more of them then good
but I understand ,,
I have to bite my tongue a lot on SW ,,a lot of people like being jerks here
but the kind people I know makes it worth while
If life has taught me anything ,,you take the good with the bad
and fair weather friends are a dime a dozen
I pick quality ,,not quantity
SolGryn · 31-35, M
Thank you for the offer
Peaches · F
@rckt148 You are such a good soul my brother Rick❣️🤗🍀
@Peaches One of the coolest folks on here. 😊
Peaches · F
@bijouxbroussard He really is, he had such a hard time in the beginning on EP but he stood his ground and people started to finally leave him alone. 🙂💗
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@Peaches @bijouxbroussard
Thank both of you for your kindness and sweet words

You treat people how you want to be treated ,,that all I ask
I am blessed here ,,,I know very few I can't get along with .
The 14 I have blocked ,is so I don't offend them
I am here to get my mind off my physical pain
Not engage in political wars and hurting others for just having an opinion ,or a belief ,
To each their own ,,I would never try to suppress anyones voice ,,thats all I ask is they don't try to suppress mine
I know the right people here as I finally did on Ep who can stop the bullies ,,,but with the block feature and the filters ,There is nothing here I can't handle
I pray for a day all men and women can just get along
regardless of beliefs ,political views ,gender identity ,nationality ,we all learn mutual respect for one another ,
Though I know that will never happen totally
I can still hope ,and hopefully set a decent example .

Love you ladies more then you know ,,proud to be your friend
I consider both of you my extended family ,,you are in my heart ,once your in there ,,I don't know how to un love you
my love is unconditional ,,I don't need you to love me back
You showed me kindness ,made me feel welcome
With me thats priceless
I never knew what that was in my own home
Thats why I am so close to my kids and their kids
The first humans since my Grandma that loved me ,even when I screwed up ,and forgave me for all the years I let them down
Now ,,my extended family is growing ,,
Thank you for being you ,,always sunshine on a day
I could easily just tire of the pain and lose my faith and hope ,,,I really don't see that happening ,my faith in humanity and my family has been restored ,,,thank you from he bottom of my heart ,,,,🤗

Peaches · F
@rckt148 Love you too bro!🙏🏼💕💙😇