I think it be fine as long as it’s not done in a baiting way, or comparing them to me. I do have little patience for flirting etc though

Other people are attractive, can't deny that.

Yes. My bf says that.

Sure, just because he sees attractive qualities in another man/woman, it doesn't mean that he will be hopping into bed with him or her any time soon.

Sure. It means they're comfortable in the relationship.

I see nothing wrong with a mate being human and acknowledging attractive looking people from time to time. In fact, I’m often one to do this, while my wife has a double standard - does it - but expects me not to.

I dont think denying the attractiveness would be a good idea, or healthy. So long as they aren't going to do something about any attraction, I'm fine with it.

Of course!
There are attractive people!
It would be a turn off if Mrs. Budwick were so insecure that I couldn't acknowledge an attractive person.

Vice - Versa too.

It's okay that he finds people attractive. I guess it depends on how he does it and how he makes me feel

There’s nothing wrong with saying that unless they’d are actually comparing you to that person.

unless they're being creepy about it or directly comparing me to other people i don't care

Yes, I don’t have that much insecurity.