
SW-User
I think it be fine as long as it’s not done in a baiting way, or comparing them to me. I do have little patience for flirting etc though

SW-User
Yes. My bf says that.
curiosi · 61-69, F
Other people are attractive, can't deny that.

SW-User
Sure. It means they're comfortable in the relationship.
Sure, just because he sees attractive qualities in another man/woman, it doesn't mean that he will be hopping into bed with him or her any time soon.
JavaJoe · 51-55, M
I see nothing wrong with a mate being human and acknowledging attractive looking people from time to time. In fact, I’m often one to do this, while my wife has a double standard - does it - but expects me not to.
firefall · 61-69, M
I dont think denying the attractiveness would be a good idea, or healthy. So long as they aren't going to do something about any attraction, I'm fine with it.
11knaves11 · 46-50, M
There’s nothing wrong with saying that unless they’d are actually comparing you to that person.
ElideInto · 31-35, F
Yeah, means he's human and honest about what he feels, and he feels comfortable around me
Budwick · 70-79, M
Of course!
There are attractive people!
It would be a turn off if Mrs. Budwick were so insecure that I couldn't acknowledge an attractive person.
Vice - Versa too.
There are attractive people!
It would be a turn off if Mrs. Budwick were so insecure that I couldn't acknowledge an attractive person.
Vice - Versa too.

SW-User
It's okay that he finds people attractive. I guess it depends on how he does it and how he makes me feel
Phrig · 41-45, M
Yes, I don’t have that much insecurity.

SW-User
unless they're being creepy about it or directly comparing me to other people i don't care