Should I message you before you message me back?

@sarabee1995 you assume too much.

@midnightsun Here's how it would go...
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You message me and since I filter all incoming messages, I don't see it.

You try to message me again and SW tells you that you can't until I reply.

You reach out to me here and tell me you sent me a message.

I say, "Okay, and?"

You ask me to check it out.

I roll my eyes, say "whatever," but I go check it out

It seems normal enough, so I reply

We message a bit back and forth during which I encourage you to check out my About Me where it asks you to keep it respectful.

You keep it respectful for a bit and then it starts; you flirt

I tell you I'm not into it (whatever it is)

You flirt some more

My inner psycho bitch comes out

You rightfully get mad at me for shredding your manhood over nothing

We end up hating each other and you block me

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See? So why go down that road?

@sarabee1995 I'm saying it again.

You assume too much.

@midnightsun Nah, just been down that road too often. I think I'm blocked by half the guys on here at least once.

@sarabee1995 third time I'm saying.

You assume too much.

@midnightsun Maybe so, but see so far you follow the exact same pattern as the guys who end up going down that exact same path. The fact that private messaging with a total stranger (me) is important to you tells me not to do it.

Friends organically transition into private messages. Try making friends with someone first, then the transition to private messaging is natural and fluid. Neither one needs to ask the other, it just happens. With strangers, it is awkward.

@sarabee1995 I think you assume too much.

It might be a defensive shell .

@midnightsun You keep making the same claim (that I assume too much). Instead of repeating yourself over and over again (which, to be honest, is quite boring), try engaging me on the topic. Tell me where I'm wrong. Don't tell me I'm assuming, challenge my assumption.

Do that and then we'll have something to talk about.

@midnightsun @sarabee1995 U CanNOTz WiNZ. LEsBEANZ MostLYZ HaTEZ MEnz,
BuTTS GaYS DonTZ haTES WiMENZ.

@DonaldTrumpet never knew she's a lesbian. Good to know.

@midnightsun NUtZ that TheIrS anYthINg wroNGZ wiTHZ tHZT

@midnightsun My boyfriend would disagree with your assessment of my sexuality. 🙄

@sarabee1995 hahaahhaa. Jesus. roflmao. Ok.

@midnightsun What is so funny?

@midnightsun No comment??

@sarabee1995 no. It's you who need to impress me.

@midnightsun I don't think either of us needs to impress the other. That's absurd. But I did ask you what was so funny when you said, [b][i]"@[c=#BF0080]sarabee1995 [/c][c=#003BB2]hahaahhaa. Jesus. roflmao. Ok.[/c]"[/i][/b]

@sarabee1995 WhY DO THE LEzBeaNZ HaTEs THE MENz?

@DonaldTrumpet Idk, why don't you go ask a lesbian??

@sarabee1995 The GayZ FonTz hatEZ the WimENZ.

WimENZ BeCuMeZ StraigHTz arounD MeZ. So YourEz weLCUMeZ

@midnightsun didn't know you had something against lesbians?

@Azrael Hey girl... Thanks for all the hearts. Clearly his only goal here is to get into private chats with girls/women. I love talking to peeps on here (guys & girls), both publicly and privately, but I only get into PMs with those peeps who take the time to make friends first. Sickbastard only wants to jump into PMs. Too bad. His loss.

Btw, I joined SW's predecessor EP when I was 17. I hope you're being careful. It was quite a shock for me. Say hi anytime.

@sarabee1995 WimENZ JuZt KeePZ talkIng nonstoPz anDz luxinGz in the NarCisstix MirrroRz [image]