What if you’re married to someone who has more or less libido than you. What do you do if it’s constantly coming up as an arguemnt?
One person prefers quantity the other prefers less quantity but better quality.
51-55, F
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Pinkstarburst · F
If it is a constant argument and a loving compromise has not been found then I recommend marriage counseling. I also see a red flag at the mention of better quality. Definitely would suggest outside help.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
*better quality meaning do it less but make sure it’s awesome . @Pinkstarburst
Pinkstarburst · F
@DoubleRings If it was awesome wouldn’t you want it as often as you could get it???? Quality and quantity kinda go hand in hand on this (IMO)
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
in two people who have the same level libido yes. but one is lower and feels like it’s not as frequent of a need.