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What if you’re married to someone who has more or less libido than you. What do you do if it’s constantly coming up as an arguemnt?

One person prefers quantity the other prefers less quantity but better quality.
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plungesponge · 41-45, M
Somehow I doubt the one who prefers "quantity" sees it that way. They probably just see it as wanting quality sex more often.

Def a difficult issue, sex drive is hard to ignore, and it even fluctuates throughout life so the chances of finding someone 100% compatible are low

It's the kind of thing you can only really address through communication if both partners have already made each other very comfortable in talking about everything honestly, so I'd work on that