Ever Been Used By Family?

My cousin, who is 23 yo and a consultant in Tulsa is planning on going into politics here in Oklahoma. He is a democrat. It will be an uphill battle. I have denied him support. The only time he has ever contacted me is to discuss his potential run for office. He never has had anything to do with me otherwise. I am a die hard conservative and me and my ex gf, are about to tell him to f*ck off. Hard to believe that family will try to use you like that but ex's won't.