Need some advice

alright so this girl who i've been really tight with for a while is in a bad place and i dunno what to do about it. she's not herself, she goes out to party all the time, she stopped giving two shits about school. i'm worried she's gonna end up hurt but i also feel like it ain't my place to tell her what to do and what not to.

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Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M

Sounds like she’s hooked on drugs (the hard stuff)

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Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M

@bryann classic signs that she’s using again. Unfortunately you can’t force her to get sober.

bryann · 26-30, M

@Ryanoliver2011 So i can't help her?

Ryanoliver2011 · 26-30, M

@bryann I didn’t say that. It really depends on the person and what stage they are in. She will keep lying to you saying she’s not using and won’t admit it unless you confront her in the act or find her pipe and even then she might not admit it and she will definitely get angry and say stuff like “I know what I’m doing” “I’ve got it under control” or my personal favorite “it’s different this time”
You can’t force anyone to get sober. It can only happen when they are ready

Ladywiththepants · 31-35, F

yeah it's not your place. Maybe she is doing what she wants to do, no need to be all white knight about it.

bryann · 26-30, M

@Ladywiththepants aight

HungJury

Score yourself a little smack and have her fuck you for it. Might as well have some fun with her before she's found in a dumpster with blue lips.

bryann · 26-30, M

@HungJury fuck off

HungJury

@bryann I'm so sorry.

MicrowaveDinner · M

Don't bother

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