As ive gotten older i realise most of the things we persecute others over we have done ourselves at some point in time.

Well to judge is to give an opinion, I reckon to not judge someone openly is like dancing around a bush with tip toes, the only person ur hurting is ur authenticity and true happiness in ur life and their life as well, Id prefer just bluntness of course more preferably accomponied with humor, or else u'll never grow and see things in different perspectives as a person, of course head on face to face not shading bs that this place seems to promote to not be deemed as innapropriate or harassing, so Right now Im suffocating here and I dont know what to do lol.