What to do?

@gmatthewb The thing is i don't think everyone is getting it. I don't want this person back. we were engaged for 5 years and he was an a-hole. so i dumped him and he lied to everyone about it and ruined me. then he got other people to ruin me and now he lives well and works well and has kids and a wife. And me? i have a husband that is no husband at all. we have no kids and i don't work and he didn't want me to get to know his family and we have no friends. i am alone all the time. But the a-hole destroying me and then getting everything....? that is too much.

@LILY61 Oh, I understand more now. That is not fair at all, I am terribly sorry to hear of your situation. Why do you say your current husband is no husband at all? If you don't mind me asking. You don't have to answer if that is too personal.

@gmatthewb i thought that when i finally got married that i would have someone that loved me and cared for me and gave me the basic necessities of life. he ended up taking that last once of me and tossing it away. we have nothing together and i am alone all the time

@LILY61 I'm very sorry he isn't a good husband for you. He should be supporting you and making you happy. With guys like that, it is no wonder women have little respect for men these days. You would probably be better on your own it seems, you feel that way anyway. Maybe just focus on what you want and do what you can to make you happy, unless he would stop you from doing that too.