why is it that i'll cry if you yell at me but get turned on if you literally punch me in my face and choke me to death and spit on me
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gmatthewb · 51-55, M
Because being yelled at hurts emotionally and being hit is physical. Possible that you enjoy physical pain. Emotional pain tends to hurt more than anything else in the world. Makes total sense to me.
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@gmatthewb I'm beginning to think I'm attracted to guys who end up being dick heads because I like getting played
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@SW-User That could be possible. Just be very careful though. Probably better to have a nice guy who enjoys role playing that kind of stuff. That would be safest and probably make you happier in the long run. Even though you like that kind of thing, never forget to take care of yourself and protect yourself. You may regret it in the future if you don't.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@SW-User Yeah, that happens a lot of times. One thing that I have learned is to take things slowly. Probably not stuff you like to hear, but you're young and have a lot of time ahead of you. Don't rush into things. Try to keep in mind that anything worth doing will take time. A beautiful flower takes time to go from a seed to a flower. The right guy will understand and give you the time you need. The jerks are the ones that want sex on the first date.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M