Why does being a widow at 23 sucks?

Because losing a spouse is a horrible thing.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how difficult it must be.

Who is that widow?

Because that is a very young age to lose a spouse

Being a widow at any age sucks. But at that age you'd barely begun your lives together. I was widowed young as well.

Becoming a widow at any age sucks.