How many abortions is too many?

@Miram And really no one knows another's circumstances, and it's easy to leap to judgment. I happen to like the person I met, I fell in love with, was pregnant with someone else's kid, the heart she took upon her decision to have an abortion when it was difficult for her to have a child.

@SW-User I told my mother that she should've aborted me, not once. I was a consequence of rape and unlike my other siblings, I spent a life time dealing with her misplaced hatred and anger towards me.

But came a point where I realized she's just limited emotionally and intellectually to understand what's best for herself, and for me. And as a part of the consequences I do have a say on the morality of her choices.

I can go around preaching abortion on that basis, the basis that I was done wrong. I don't because I understand it is so different from a case to another.

@Miram Yes, and I have listened to people say negative things about kids born into foster parents and arrangements. Somewhere it has affected me, emotionally as I can't change how my father was brought up, or wanted.

I think he knew it would affect us. I find my mother still here, very warm, very sweet, all around someone who would be there for someone. It's likely what took him of her. So I have a happy story around this, but I feel sad?

I know in my heart, how I met who I have spoken about, if I hadn't that learning, I may look differently.

Sorry.

@Miram

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