Is being human and being hurt the same thing?

I don't think so, being hurt can be part of being human but u don't have to have emotions to be human, or at least for some it's harder to process which doesn't make them any Less human because they excel in other traits

yes if u don't feel pain then ur not much human D: my stomach hurts everytime I don't have a cookie XD

Especially if one stubs their toe

Not the same thing, humans cause more hurt than they feel.