do you like to dress more flashy or more modest?

Generally in 'public' I dress fairly modest, especially at the gym. Men ogle enough already, haha.

I enjoy the attention, lol.

Depends on the weather, My mood, where I am going or who to see

I don't really know how to dress "flashy" 🤷‍♂️. I wouldn't mind the attention, so long as it wasn't negative.