Why do most men on SW...

Have no photos in their gallery. Especially of themselves?
I get that most on here prefer to remain anonymous, but I like a selfie😁 🤳 and I feel that a connection is easier to establish if you have an idea of the face.

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Lila15 · 22-25, F

I can't speak for men, but as a female I don't feel comfortable sharing photos of myself, especially on an anonymous site like SW where I don't know who I'm talking to or have any control over what they will do with my photo once it's out there. This isn't Facebook and it's certainly not a dating site.

Montanaman · M

@Lila15 understand, but don't you think it's different for men. Transparency and all?

SW-User

You're absolutely right this isn't Facebook and you don't know who you're talking to so it's safer to stay anonymous.@Lila15

Lila15 · 22-25, F

@Montanaman I think a lot of men are on here secretly, so they also prefer to remain anonymous. It's easier to discuss fetishes and other things they want to keep private if it's an anonymous profile. If you want a public profile, there's always Facebook or LinkedIn.

Montanaman · M

@Lila15 speaking for myself, this account is my secret, but I don't want to be anonymous, otherwise, I wouldn't be trusted. Keeping it real.

SW-User

@Montanaman actually that's true because the creeps keep a low profile

Lila15 · 22-25, F

@Montanaman Well, you're not using your real name, so you are being somewhat anonymous. Nothing wrong with that, SW was intended to be anonymous.

Montanaman · M

@Lila15 true, but I've posted my real name in most writing, so it's known
Kelly.

Lila15 · 22-25, F

@Montanaman Well, obviously my name is Lila, but I'm not going to give out my last name.