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Can someone who truly loves u leave u without saying... a word ? 馃

I don't believe in this you guys. Regardless of what kind of a relationship you have with someone. It doesn't matter if it is on SW or in real life. If you spent a lot of time with someone and energy...you can't say that you truly loved them after leaving them without saying a single word. No way. Your thoughts. Comments.
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I thought a little bit more about this... no matter what you say some people are hell bound to take it wrong, they are eager to assign blame and no matter how prettily you try to say goodbye they're going to get angry with you.
Humans are not simple they are messy, complicated, and passionate.
Some people are so damaged I don't want to judge them.
They just can't do it.
I have given my explanations to them and then I have blocked them from my life, because they are not kind and I know they will just continue to argue the point and not let it go,because it's so much more important for them to be right than to see another person's point of view.
Every single time it hurts like hell ,like something's being ripped from my body ,because I have loved them, but I see now that they did not love me, they were just using me.
I ain't about to sit there and be plummeted over and over again by their unkindness if it makes me weak so be it.
But, I will argue that I am strong.
It takes a whole hell of a lot of guts to walk away when you're in love.
I too, believe it is better if you give at least some kind of explanation, but that doesn't guarantee the other person is going to be very receptive, kind, or even try to listen to a word you say.
Preconceived ideas and biases are really hard to fight.
Be nice if breakups could be wrapped up in a nice little bows and everybody goes away as a better person...
May even happen from time to time ,hasn't been my experience, but I'm willing to believe that it does happen in some cases.
Zonuss41-45, M
@SW-User Never let someone take advantage of you under any circumstances.
SW-User
@Zonuss It is never meant and they don't give you warning many times...everyone does the best they can and hopes.
And hopefully learns...but again humans are complicated
SW-User
@Zonuss isn't love a vulnerability in itself?
Who says take advantage of me please?
And if you're too rigid and on your guard all the time can't see that as being a good formula for love...