Can someone who truly loves u leave u without saying... a word ? 🤔

@VioletRayne Well that is true. But sometimes you feel the same way they do and will let them go. The silence can be like a smack in.the face. Like you've been taken for granted if you will. But a good bye is closure. It really does have a profound effect when you end things on a good note. It matters.

@Zonuss [c=#4C0073]Ending things on a good note isn’t always possible. Not everybody is able to accept no. I had a friend who left her ex-boyfriend with a note and moved half way across the US. This guy tracked her down and showed up at her doorstep months later trying to get back together and saying a note wasn’t enough. Sometimes saying something is the worse thing you could do.[/c]

@VioletRayne I agree. Sometimes saying something is the worse thing you could do.
But sometimes also leaving without anyone goodbye, without any word, is the worse thing you could do. 😶
Probably it's different from person to person. 😶

@VioletRayne Leaving and ghosting someone a person professes to love is the worst thing you can do. The silent treatment has been likened to emotional abuse. A person knowing why, no matter how bad is never as cruel as being left with a thousands thoughts of wondering why. It's like abandonment

@SW-User That's so true! 🥺

@Loretta78 yep ain't no gettin around it, it's selfish selfishness

@SW-User [c=#4C0073]it maybe selfish but sometimes you have to take care of yourself first. [/c]

@VioletRayne I guess. Can't see myself doing it

@SW-User Me either.