Does mutual attraction lead to a connection, or does a mutual connection create attraction?

For those tempted to straddle the fence and say both or it depends, which would you say is the better route to a relationship?

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Myzery · 41-45, F

I would think that the connection first would be the better option of the two. But I don't know if that is how it really works.