@SW-User I'm sorry to hear that. Mine is too! I have learned that life isn't the problem, just the people in it. It's like friendship has died off over the past few years.
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@Keaten Same. Just it's like people can't mind their own misery and expect you to be miserable too.
@SW-User Exactly! I have never understood that. They feel you are not suffering like them, they take it upon themselves to alter your life but can't run their own.
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@Keaten Or theirs is already ruined and they actively try to make you go down the same spiral with you. Frankly though when I relied on "friends" support in a very difficult moment of my life I found none and picking myself up was never so hard. But I've braved it out somehow and I learnt a lot from both ends of the spectrum.
@SW-User That is admirable what you did. Not a lot of people could've done that. The same thing happened to me. My supposed "friends" took it upon themselves to try and make decisions about my life, based on their failures and feelings. I knew then I had to break away from them. They weren't going to be happy until I was worse off than they were.
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@Keaten That's something I've noticed about the said friends too. So long as you're miserable or worse off than them they'll talk to you but when you're good and content you're non existent to them. Or that's my experience at least.
@SW-User That has also been my experience as well. When I did actually find a good friend, they would just vanish as if they never even existed. That kind of hurt never seems to leave.
