Don’t you hate it when you get ignored by the person you want to talk to the most?

Fernie · F

the first time someone deliberately ignores me the relationship is over...it's childish and cowardly and passive aggressive. 3 things I find intolerable

SW-User

@Fernie Yep, but I don't quit them cause of one time.

Fernie · F

@SW-User I'm glad you don't. I am extreme in this matter...probably missed out on some good people

SW-User

@Fernie Thanks. Yeah well it could be argument and she's just pissed at me haha. But if a pattern then it's those three issues you said and more

SW-User

Sure, it's not a great feeling if indeed they're ignoring.
But just because I want to talk to them, doesn't mean they want to talk to me. I cut my losses and try to not want to talk to them.

SW-User

Sometimes in life the people who you once thought were special to you who end up hurting you become a distant memory and an important learning curve then you meet better people in the future. 🌷

coary987 · M

That's horrible why would anyone do that,?

melanchoIy

Because they’re assholes @coary987

coary987 · M

@melanchoIy they really must be.
Not true friends or genuine ones

Dusty101 · F

@coary987 I've ignored someone who has behaved rather bad and the intentions were true.. This person knew they were out of order and knew what they did wrong. No mix up no mistake just this person was very sad. Not in a sad "oh the poor thing way"
But in a sad horrible way. Thankfully I don't know this person anymore.

SW-User

Well sure...pretty common sense to have negative feelings about not getting what we want.

GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

You're not being ignored unless you're waiting around for a reply.

JustNik · 51-55, F

🤷‍♀️ Things are often uneven. It’s always a little sad, but I let them go.

SW-User

It happens.
It just shows you are not their priority.

Dusty101 · F

It's so annoying.. But I agree with fernie.

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