Would u like a parnter that is similar to who u are or different?

My husband is a Sagittarius and I'm a Scorpio. He is a good man and I love him a lot but sometimes we on different energy fields he moves 100x faster than myself. But I'm just wondering do I need someone who is completey opposite from me or same like me more private and cool energy,would I get bored with my similar person hmmm