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NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
Why do you want to be hated first? Why don't you just want to be loved without being hated first? 🤔
SW-User
@NankerPhelge With expectations comes disappointment
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User But would you expect to be loved after you've been hated?
SW-User
@NankerPhelge Nope. I expect nothing. I’d rather they hated me and moved on
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User But your original post said "Sometimes it’s better to be hated then to be loved". Now you are saying it's better to be hated then not be loved? Isn't that a bit of a contradiction? 🤔
SW-User
@NankerPhelge You really are reading too much into this. It’s better to be hated because it makes someone you care about hurt less. Afterall, hate is the stronger emotion 🤔
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User I'm not reading that much into it. I just thought your last comment contradicted your original post, that's all. Why did you add "then to be loved" onto the end of it? Why didn't you just say "Sometimes it’s better to be hated"? 🤔
SW-User
@NankerPhelge Maybe because I know how it is to be loved and hated ? I did not contradict myself sweety 😂
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
@SW-User Then what did you mean? You are confusing me.