Would you rather...

...get attention for your body, things about you everyone can see, things that make others turn you into an object to feed their lust or things only people who really know and care about you can see like your personality, character traits, your good heart and mind?

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summersong · F

The latter of course. Hands down.

SW-User

Definitely, absolutely, without a doubt, I want to be known for my character and personality.

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

I’d like to think most would prefer the latter.

cheesyAF · 31-35, M

@HijabaDabbaDoo Someone very dear to me seemd to prefer the first and it's really making me sad because I know she's a lot better than that.😞

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

@cheesyAF Maybe she can’t see what you see. I know people who resort to the same because they don’t appreciate themselves. It sucks. I guess she needs reminding.

cheesyAF · 31-35, M

@HijabaDabbaDoo I do remind her at any given chance because I want her to know there's no need for her to seek the wrong kind of attention and I know there are quite a few people who tell her they appreciate these things about her too. It's like she has a hard time believing there's more to her even though she gets reminded of it a lot...

Spoiledbrat · F

Things about me not everyone can see so yes the last.

Mamapolo2016 · F

The first is fast, the second lasts.

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