Have you ever felt like you're being silently hated on here?

Si. It gets to me too often

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marsbar · F

I’m not sure, but when I answer posts with serious & thoughtful comments & don’t get a response back & only a heart, & it’s done multiple times by the same user, I start to think that maybe they don’t like me. But not dislike me enough to block me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Rutterman · 46-50, M

@marsbar That happens to me, though I often don't even get a heart. I've drawn the same conclusion about it as you have.

marsbar · F

@Rutterman I’m at the point where I don’t even answer their posts anymore, even if it’s a serious one, & they need encouragement.

Rutterman · 46-50, M

@marsbar I don't blame you at all. There's really no point in continuing to reply to their posts. I've also pretty much stopped commenting on the posts of those who don't seem to appreciate it.

SW-User

@marsbar I'm sorry that has happened to you. I get that too actually, not on posts but in replies to someone else's comment. Never once have they ever appreciated my replies while I see them hearting and replying to other people's. It makes me question what I have done to make this person become this distant to me

Stark

@marsbar I get that vibe as well and I do the same. I just don’t reply to their posts

marsbar · F

@SW-User Thank you. I feel the same. I think to myself,”Wow, I just wrote a long ass paragraph & only got a heart. And that person over there wrote 2 words & got a long response”. 😅

marsbar · F

@Stark Yeah, I won’t block them, but I’ll scroll past their posts.