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What kind of actions result in psychological issues in teens?

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Abstraction · 61-69, M
Good list from @basilfawlty89. I would add: parents who are overly controlling, don't create space for a child to explore their own ideas or emotions... are more highly likely to see delinquent tendencies in 11-15 year olds. This is based on Scottish research.

So parents who think the goal is control have no understanding of their role. Children may become rebellious or passive aggressive because their emotions have no way to go, and the only clear path they see is resistance.

By the time they are in late teens they need to have processed their emotions, thinking, values etc and begin to make responsible decisions, feeling as though their parents are supportive, listen, care, create space... but still provide guidance.
@Abstraction sounds different than my own home
Environment
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Cow1919 Yeah, my home environment wasn't perfect either. Survive, and create a brilliant one in your own life.
@Abstraction well since I’m much younger the new idea is die before marriage
Abstraction · 61-69, M
@Cow1919 Sounds like a lot of pain inside...

Life can be brilliant. Imagine a movie that starts off really crap. Lots of people get up and walk out. But you stay, and then slowly it starts to make sense, and becomes the best movie you've ever seen. And you think - I feel sorry for those who walked out before they made sense of it.
@Abstraction not really