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What's do you think....

🤔 how long does one wait to meet someone from online irl? *how long do you chat with them before actually meeting and hanging out.
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Earthwrap · 41-45, M
anywhere from immediately to 1-2 years.
Earthwrap · 41-45, M
My preference is after a couple days rather than wasting time and people dragging things out with being fake, but sometimes distance is a problem and it can take years. All depends on how you feel about it all and the situation I guess.
iQuit · F
@Earthwrap idk, someone messaged me on Facebook. 🤔 they seem decent, but idk them at all. We only have one friend in common and I've never done something like this. So it's new to me. Usually I meet people then add them to fb.
Earthwrap · 41-45, M
@iQuit I wouldn't trust facebook and a situation like that I'd probably have to talk to them a great deal first and be super cautious. Especially someone randomly seeking you out on a site like that.
iQuit · F
@Earthwrap that's what I think. I'm trying to talk to them more than the 2times we have on voice and video call. You are definitely right and I will totally wait. Tbh I'm in no hurry. And I really appreciate your input. Thank you 🙂
TallJames · 51-55, M
@iQuit meet them in public and bring a friend
Earthwrap · 41-45, M
@iQuit On some website like this where people are anonymous for the most part I almost feel there is less risk than on a website like facbeook where people put their full identities and post their lives on there. Like on here you would have to get to know someone over a while before meeting IRL usually. But IDK