Men, do you like it when women call you “Daddy”?

Why? Why not?

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okaybut · 56-60, M

My girlfriend does...when she is in the throes of passion only. In the same breath she usually asks that I call her nasty names. I enjoy it primarily because she does. It could be about power...but just as much about the kink.

SW-User

@okaybut I think it’s the power that drives the kink 😆

okaybut · 56-60, M

@SW-User Maybe...I think sexuality works on an evolutionary primal level to some extent. 😬

SW-User

@okaybut In what way?

okaybut · 56-60, M

@SW-User Okay....I believe we are still wired based upon our evolutionary past. Males gained sex in a large part due to aggression and force. Which in a lot of cases is where the sexual act ends. For me it is pulling hair, pushing hard against her, holding her tight...basically entirely dominating her. I think for most of us, this is a condition for sexual climax. In the end, it turns into a primal aggressive act. I know there are variations and even different roles of dominance, but it is not the norm in my view.

SW-User

@okaybut That makes complete sense. I’ve always wondered why men can tend to be aggressively dominant on bed.