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ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
@Tatsumi please explain to me,, I would love to hear why it matters , not being sarcastic either
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@ChatterinSeuss Virginity denotes inexperience and a lack of an ability to attract women, in males. Women are attracted to men whom other women are attracted towards. Women, of course, on average, also prefer experienced men.
Hence why calling a man a virgin is typically used as a default insult, by both men and women, particularly women. "You cannot attract women."
And, while female virginity doesn't mean much to guys; it does to me, in particular, because of the same reason: it denotes inexperience. And, in my experience, virgins tend to apply a great deal of meaning to sex, and want you to be the chosen one and get too clingy, if you take their virginity. So, I tend to prefer non-virgins. But even then, I still give virgins a chance. Not my first choice, though.
Hence why calling a man a virgin is typically used as a default insult, by both men and women, particularly women. "You cannot attract women."
And, while female virginity doesn't mean much to guys; it does to me, in particular, because of the same reason: it denotes inexperience. And, in my experience, virgins tend to apply a great deal of meaning to sex, and want you to be the chosen one and get too clingy, if you take their virginity. So, I tend to prefer non-virgins. But even then, I still give virgins a chance. Not my first choice, though.
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
@Tatsumi all well and good ,,, but I want a woman with experience... I see many men that brag about having a virgin and deflowering women,, and I am one totally for womens rights.. I don't see virginity as something sacred or holy.. I see it as a lack of experience and a fear of the unknown.. I broke my fear a long time ago ...