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PoetryNEmotion · F
Cannot do that. Have a bit of a heart. Tell that person in the kindest way that they need to spend some time away. And that you need some space. I had problems with my brother's gf who agreed to certain terms to stay with me temporarily. Cook her own food. Clean up after herself. Not hog the bathroom when the ex was getting ready for work. She was such a slob. I tried talking to her. Didn't work. So I told her it wasn't working out and she had 6 weeks to find another place. She moved out. Wasn't happy. So glad she didn't marry my brother. You never know how a person is until you live with them. I don't let anyone live with me. It saves a lot of trouble.