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I want to tell my life story.

I've experienced some crazy sh*t in my life, and I want to share. I want people to know my story and if there are people out there that have dealt with the many things that I have dealt with, that they are not alone. I want to write it, in a book. But, I don't know where to begin. I'm not a good writer at all. Any tips?
Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment
My advice would be to read a couple of critically acclaimed autobiographies to get a feeling for how you can avoid making your story an endless, boring recitation of facts, dates and names.

I suggest The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas, David Niven, and Testament Of Youth (Vera Brittain) but there are lots of good ones.

Most that I’ve read begin with an explanation about why I would even care that the author lived and/or is sharing intimate details. (Say, for instance, you went abroad to work with the Peace Corps and ended in brutal prison in a foreign country...what about your early life prompted you to do such a daring thing, what were you like before, during and after?)

A strong suggestion directly from me. Few things annoy me more than an autobiographer hints throughout the book that there is one or more things he/she did or someone else did to him/her that would positively knock my socks off ... and then I’ve gotten to the end and the BIG THING was never discussed. If you’re going to withhold things, don’t mention or even imply things.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 I would rather start my story in my teenage years, like 14 years old. Do you think that's too late to start it?
Keep in mind this is YOUR story. You must keep it yours and tell it the way you want to, regardless of what I say or what anyone else says.

It can be as simple as ‘I was born in 1992, but the interesting stuff begins when I was fourteen, in 2006.

If earlier years have a significant bearing on or explanation of later events, it might be tricky to skip them entirely.

I’d really have to read it to see how it works.

One thing to remember: you may have a good idea of why your life has gone as it has. Your reader doesn’t. You have to be careful not to assume that things will be as obvious to your audience as they are to you. When in doubt, provide too much rather than too little. You can weed out the extra later.

It drives readers crazy when Chapter 2 ends with ‘and at the age of four I was told by my parents and doctor I had been stricken with polio.’

And then Chapter 3 starts, ‘I was chosen for the varsity track team.’

How? What happened to the kid with polio that she’s a track star now? Who or what was instrumental?
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
OMG that's fantastic. Thank you!!!!

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
You can write your book if you are willing to have a regular work schedule. Do not depend on "inspiration" or your emotions to get the job done.

Remember, if you were to write one page a day, it would probably be done by the end of the year.

It's the regularity of the work that will get you there.

When you write, quit while you are excited and writing easily; don't quit when you are feeling burned out after an exciting burst of "inspiration." That way you will be excited to continue when you pick it up and start again. As you finish a session, while still excited and energized, make notes about what comes next. That will get you going again when you get back to it.

Work in short sessions if you are new to writing. A typical amateur mistake is to work for too long, get tired and burned out, then put away the manuscript or typescript and never "find the time" to start again. A 15 minute session can accomplish a lot. 30 minutes should be your outside limit.

Beware of your work habits if you find yourself saying things like: "I'll get started on it (or get back to it) just as soon as __________________." (Fill in the blank: "...as soon as my mother-in-law leaves and goes back home" "As soon as the holidays are over" "When my son leaves for college" "After I finally clean up the garage" "When we're done with the remodeling") The truth is that no normal life allows time for things like writing a book; you will have to make the time. Fortunately, you will only need to do it in short sessions in any regular persistent pattern, like three days a week for 15-20 minutes. Don't wait for life to allow you to do it; it never will.

Before you write, it can be helpful to scribble down a bunch of notes about the things you want to write about. Carry a small notebook and pen with you and write your ideas down as they come to you, or use a recording device if you're in a car. If in company, use the bathroom to jot down your notes.

To interest readers, you will need to interest them in you since you are the main character in your story. In fiction or non-fiction, people will take an interest in the story when they know the character or person it happened to. So make a point of quickly and succinctly letting your readers know who you are and what you are like in a few sentences or in the first paragraph. Do not postpone this; do it immediately, right at the very start.

Do not worry about how well you are writing--because you can always rewrite anything. Getting the job done is far more important than being perfect or trying to be a literary genius. If you are really underconfident, and stuck, give yourself permission to write badly...andget the job done.

You can message me any time if you need any encouragement.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@greenmountaingal WOW that's awesome! I hope you don't mind if I ask for any more tips!
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Keepitsimple98 I am retired now. I would be honored if you did.
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@greenmountaingal awwww great!
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
Just start, the words will just start flooding out of you. Cut and paste will be one of your best friends and, there are editors out there for a reason. 😊
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Jeephikelove Thank you!!!
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Keepitsimple98 You’re welcome. 🤗 to you on your emotional journey.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Start from the beginning and write from your heart. If you think you can't do it alone, tell it to a co-writer and ask them to put it in written form.
Faith04 · 18-21, F
since its about ur life start with ur childhood and so everyone will know what ur talking about and who u are
Thanks for BA. Good luck!
Montanaman · M
Just do it. Start writing. Write from your heart. Let the words flow and not worry about grammar, or punctuation and then post, devil may care.👍💕
Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F
@Montanaman Thank you!
Montanaman · M
@Keepitsimple98 anytime.👍👍🤗

 
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