My gf wants me to go out with her and her friend tonight but I don’t want to go.

I spent most of my savings to help out a few months back when my sisters fiancé died and I’m trying to save money again. My car isn’t paid off so I have to pay it every month along with rent. and i just spent 1,400 this week on rent and bills and I have to pay my car next week. She still lives at home with her parents. I just don't think she understands at am I being an asshole?

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snowangelashley · 26-30, F

If she can't understand that your money's tight and you need to be careful of your spending... she's the asshole. And if you're afraid to even have that conversation, you shouldn't even be gf's.

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Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F

@snowangelashley She's 26, I'm 29

snowangelashley · 26-30, F

@Keepitsimple98 lol...she too old to be living with her parents! Tell her to grow up and fly the coop! :)

Keepitsimple98 · 31-35, F

@snowangelashley I know right? She has tons of extra money, I don't. I need to save!

SW-User

No you are not. She should understand whether she lives on her own or not. I live with my parents and I can deeply understand why you cannot go out.

666Maggotz ·

You have adult responsibilities, you’re not being an asshole. Just tell her the truth, you can’t because you need to save your money.

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