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Masculinity?

Do you think a guy can be over masculine? What do you think it may hide?
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kayoshin · 41-45, M
It's a sad world where being manly is suddenly cause for suspicion. We celebrate womanhood and encourage girls to be whatever they can be but a guy can't even be a guy without something being wrong with him? Quickly men of the world show a feminine side so you don't seem gay or insecure! (as suggested by replies to this post)

*just top make it clear my point is that in an age of encouraging everyone to embrace sexuality whatever it is it seems shameful to discriminate against 1 sexuality as if it's a symptom or a choice*
Idontknowlol · 41-45, M
@kayoshin i agree a true man shows emotions. Pussy's hide and crie at night in their blanket.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
But what if you don't actually have the emotions expected of you at that moment? I for examplehave emotions but they don't have the intensity or timing that people expect me to have so i have been acused of "acting manly" when i wasn't acting at all it just is the way I am, i dont' even think it makes one manly just more analitical than emotional really.Many times simply analising the situation presented it might not seem as tragic or happy to me as it does to other people, that makes me more of a neurotic overthinker type rather than manly, the assumption that one bottles this up and goes home to cry about it starts from the wrong idea that the person actually has what to bottle up in the first place.
SW-User
@kayoshin whilst i understand and appreciate what you say, i think you've started off generalizing then limited yourself to an individualism.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Actually the generalization was "i agree a true man shows emotions. Pussy's hide and crie at night in their blanket." made by another person, not me, to which i replied with a counterexample that doesn't fit that generalization and personal experience to backup the existence of individuals that prove the generalization model is flawed.
SW-User
@kayoshin Actually, as soon as some one says 'actually' i turn off!
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Don't make wrong statements if you don't like that word :)
SW-User
@kayoshin ok what ever!
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Really? You hate "actually" but you use "whatever"? Come on man, I had high hopes for you.
SW-User
@kayoshin lol, i don't 'hate' anything.

Funny, i had and continue to have no hope for you! Like i said i'm trying to turn off! Although a block will do, either way, i don't mind. Clues in the name.
kayoshin · 41-45, M
Well if you don't care why should i give a sparrow's weight in coconuts if you block me? Have fun with it !
SW-User
@kayoshin i have, its triumphant and righteous!
Idontknowlol · 41-45, M
@SW-User lol see a example of someone who wants to force their opinion onto others. Do not bugger