Whats the oldest age difference you would go for?

@Miram The girl in question is 28 and shes interested in me but im 22.. I just feel kinds odd tbh shes really pretty and everything

@NoYou yes, you are young.

She can wait for you to be in your mid twenties for the serious business.

@Miram I’ve heard that older girls want to settle down right away pretty much.. and I can’t do that until I’m atleat 25. :/

@NoYou my bf is one year older than you. I am 27. I want him to live with me as a family member. Because that way I can support him better. Before , I completely crossed out the idea of having my own biological child but I am considering it. Might be something we will do in my thirties. To me he is still young. Not that i have any deep experience myself but he is young and I m protective of him. The two years will be spent in emotional connection and other forms of intimacy.

There are things I want him to do while with me to ensure his own financial security.

When you find the right person, they will want to walk with you not drag you at their own wants and needs. Not all of us old women are looking for quick marriage 😜

You still should be careful and explain you aren't ready to prioritize something else over your own future. She will stick around if she really likes you

@Miram I feel like it’ll be the same for us if we do get together which I’m still not sure about. This is all so weird. How the heck did a girl like that find interest in me. She is gorgeous.