Can you name a situation where you are damned if you do and damned if you don't?

I get told off if I let my preschoolers out in the misty rain in their boots and they are happy out!!!
Then I get told off if I don't let them out the next day when the weather is worse!😬

Being Alan Parsons🤔
I can’t actually remember what the song was about

I don't agree but all my peers I work with talk about their marriages like this.

Being a Trump supporter.

trying to resolve a relatnsp with a toxic relative.

NO

Getting stoned