vicky5875 · M
Whan she refused to suck me
when it becomes disrespectful and toxic to your well being..
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@Primnproper perfectly said
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Justenjoyit well sometimes I think you may excuse them because of their circumstances or allow them one indiscretion but if it goes beyond that then no I'm not interested..
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@Primnproper well i usally stop as soon as it stops becoming a two way
When you’re the only one putting in any effort.

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@Julie717 I find that's very common on here
@SW-User it’s happening to me now. I think I’m gonna just Ghost.

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@Julie717 It's hard to find friends on here
Dusty101 · F
When they have isolated me and not included me in the usual nights out that we used to do!

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@Dusty101 all good reasons ha
RubySoo · 56-60, F
....I don't believe I ever would give up on a friendship.But....a friend of mine has recently given up on ours and there is nothing I can do or say to change their mind.
Im gutted......Sadie couldn't have been left 'open ended'....with hope of picking up down the line.
Its one of the hardest things....knowing you're no longer wanted.
But....I have to give up....because he's made his choice.....and nothing I can do can make it right it seems.
Im gutted......Sadie couldn't have been left 'open ended'....with hope of picking up down the line.
Its one of the hardest things....knowing you're no longer wanted.
But....I have to give up....because he's made his choice.....and nothing I can do can make it right it seems.

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people may think I gave up on them
but in my mind, our freindship is still okay/healthy enough lol
I don't need daily input
seasonal is fine by me
maybe it seems like I do... but I don't care less
I suppose...
my selfishness is my cardinal sin
but in my mind, our freindship is still okay/healthy enough lol
I don't need daily input
seasonal is fine by me
maybe it seems like I do... but I don't care less
I suppose...
my selfishness is my cardinal sin

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(Sorry my friend )

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@SW-User thank you and it's okay :)

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When the other party seems disinterested in maintaining the friendship.

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@SW-User that is exactly and precisely it.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User i questioned when I felt that way....and gave them just the excuse they needed. He was offended I doubted his commitment to our friendship......so he ended it there and then. I was crushed.
NewKidInTown · 51-55, M
I recently did, with a friend of many years, from highschool.
We would always at least wish each other a happy birthday, but this year he did not acknowledge my message, and I haven't received one from him for the last few, so it definitely seems one-sided. Even social outings, he never made the effort, so time to sever, me thinks. Especially when there are people in my life who want and deserve my time.
We would always at least wish each other a happy birthday, but this year he did not acknowledge my message, and I haven't received one from him for the last few, so it definitely seems one-sided. Even social outings, he never made the effort, so time to sever, me thinks. Especially when there are people in my life who want and deserve my time.

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@NewKidInTown yeah.. I can only do the one sided thing for so long before I jump ship.
If they've stolen your money or youve caught them in bed with your significant other I think you're probably getting close to the point where you should call it a day.

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@TopOfTheWorld ya think? lmao
@SW-User pretty sure it'd be the time😏

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on here or in real life?

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@SW-User both?

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on here, when the conversation is just one sided and consists of no more then 3 words.
In real life I have a small circle of real friends so no need to give them up.
In real life I have a small circle of real friends so no need to give them up.

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@SW-User perfect reasons thank you
firefall · 61-69, M
When they backstab me, or once I've been ignored a long time (although in the latter case I tend to forgive very easily & resume the friendship, if they make an approach)
When the caring is one sided.

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@Elandra77 yeah me too
EugenieLaBorgia · F
In corporeal life - never.

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When they just go away... :'(

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@SW-User their loss!
celine211 · 22-25, F
When they lose my respect

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@celine211 Defo
Zoranna · F
When all of a sudden I don't hear from them for months for no obvious reason or explanation when I thought we had a close bond. Feeling quite sad about it actually. :-(

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@Zoranna yeah it's sad..
Mondayschild · F
This is really a hard thing for me to do. If they steal from me or lie
Tracos · 51-55, M
friendships are not a distinct thing... but I do give up on trusting people when its getting to a point of betrayal...

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@Tracos Yep..
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
When they give up coffee...

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@Shutterbug Yessss... time to say bye bye 😨 lmao
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@SW-User ...never hang around freaks...😏

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@Shutterbug Yeah! Ugh!
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@SW-User yeah or when you're the only one trying to keep the friendship up

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When its just me doing the talking

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@SW-User exactly
DayDreaming2 · F
When there is no trust or respect left between you
Degbeme · 70-79, M
*looks you in the eye* ...... Right now! :p

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@Degbeme Awww say it isn't so Deggy :/
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@SW-User *clears throat* Isn`t so. :*

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@Degbeme Mwah Hugs! 🤗
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
When they block me.

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Now
Steerpike · 46-50, M
Think it is about the time they reach for an axe.

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@Steerpike 😨😄
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firefall · 61-69, M
@Mysteriousliaisons ha! I'd have said when they start sending tuna sandwiches! :)
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
When it stops becoming a two way thing😊

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@Justenjoyit this
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
@SW-User this lol
when they dont treat you right, push away or out doing dumb things and you dont want to associate with them over those things they are doing.

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@badapple time to say bye bye
sadly you have too, some people become so toxic that it kind of hurts to cut the connection, but in order to have peace in your life you need to, either when they dont treat you right or just go silent to you and act like you dont exist or doing things that are just not right. sad part is people change and not all changes are good.

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@badapple 👍🏻 well said.
sciguy18 · M
When it's incredibly one-sided and sucking the life out of you...

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@sciguy18 haha... you know it sci
tenente · 100+, M
before i start 🤔