chats, anyone else experience this..?

no. i dont do PM. learned years ago that people online are fake. you end up putting yourself into a concoction of who you think that person is and what they tell you, its basically falling for someone's words and pictures. its not real. i think we are all looking for a connection in life with others just to me i wont do online anything as i dont believe online anything is real. i wont PM anyone anymore or try to get close to things that are online. the real world is what i focus on. but its normal for people to fall for the fantasy.

smart move

Yes. I don't say anything either.I don't want to screw it up.