If you were the same as the rest of your family what would you be?

I am very different than the rest of my family I don’t even think I look like any of them , most of them have black or brown hair and green or brown eyes where as a child I had bleach blond hair and blue eyes though my hair has somewhat darkened a little to more af a sandy brown as I got older but it’s still lighter than thier which leads me to believe I was adopted but they'venever told me so but they raised me in a caring , loving family they say I got my hair and eye color from my dads mom.And also I tend to have a totally different outlook on things then they do.