Do not message me...
...and offer me your friendship if all you're going to do is stop responding after two or three messages and lose interest in me for whatever unexplained reason.
26-30, M
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ZenKitzune · F
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@ZenKitzune But they couldn't at least tell the other person that they are having second thoughts about the friendship instead of abandoning them altogether like a cunt? Sounds like BS to me...
ZenKitzune · F
@SubZeroSlays808 Maybe people don't find it so easy to directly reject someone that way? or maybe they just have other shit going on in their lives. I wouldn't take it too personally, it happens all the time.
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@ZenKitzune That's called being a coward and that shit is unacceptable in my eyes. If you're kind of person who can see yourself sound the same thing that those people are doing, then I would rather you did not speak to me at all.
Don't defend the indefensible ones.
Don't defend the indefensible ones.
ZenKitzune · F
@SubZeroSlays808 no im the kind of person who isn't all that sensitive about whether someone can see me as a person they want to be friends with or not. It's more hassle than its worth to get worked up over a stranger.
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@ZenKitzune There's a difference between "getting worked up over" and "being disappointed by" a stranger. I'm the latter.
ZenKitzune · F
@SubZeroSlays808 Still, 2 or 3 messages, it's hardly worth either is it?
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@ZenKitzune It's only natural for me to feel disappointment at someone making it seem like they want talk to me only to leave me hanging.
It's just who I am. If you don't understand that, then I'm afraid that there is nothing I could ever say that would make you understand. Now stop trying to redirect my criticism. The idiots who do this crap are the ones deserving to be criticized, not I.
It's just who I am. If you don't understand that, then I'm afraid that there is nothing I could ever say that would make you understand. Now stop trying to redirect my criticism. The idiots who do this crap are the ones deserving to be criticized, not I.
ZenKitzune · F
@SubZeroSlays808 I'm trying to make you understand that you have a choice in this. It's all to do with expectations, disappointment comes when we expect too much from things and people. Try just seeing a conversation as just that. When I speak to people and they are demanding commitment (however subtly) it tends to put me off talking to them. Just relax a bit, let things be as they are.
It's easier to make friends that way.
It's easier to make friends that way.
SubZeroSlays808 · 26-30, M
@ZenKitzune How about you understand that I don't appreciate that you are trying to justify the behavior of complete idiots and make it seem like abandoning someone you just start talking to is no big deal?
In the words of Bad Religion: "You create your own reality and leave mine to me."
In the words of Bad Religion: "You create your own reality and leave mine to me."
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